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  • SpongyAneurysm@feddit.orgtomemes@lemmy.worldWTF
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    3 days ago

    I’ve got one for my bluetooth headphones.

    You can change the color of the light ring on them, you can control the noise cancelling modes and set an equalizer.

    You can also do some fancy camera scanning of your ears that is supposedly used to personalize their sound.

    Imho all pretty gimmicky and useless, or something that doesn’t require a dedicated headphone app. The only thing really useful about it is, that sometimes they have trouble connecting to my phone through the standard Bluetooth menu. The app can take care of that, though. But maybe they could have spent the time developing that app to fix this issue altogether.


  • The roast chicken is usually not an egg creating machine though.
    They are fairly young male chickens, that have been raised just past their maximum growth rates.

    I guess that wouldn’t have been that much different in medieval times. The difference nowadays is, that we have specialized breeds for egg-laying or meat production vice versa and the respective ‘wrong’ sex of each will just be ‘discarded’ right after hatching.


  • Well my main hurdle is, that I don’t have any income right now. I’ve had 4 jobs in the last 10 years after finishing university, none of which lasted longer than 15 months, due to recurring health issues.

    If also never lived in the same place for more than 4 years. (except my parent’s house)

    So even if a bank would give me a loan, my confidence that I could manage to pay that off is pretty low. Which is kind of a sad state to find yourself in, in your late 30s.

    I learned some of the math in uni for my engineering degree, but that was focussed on enterprises, where it makes sense if you generate revenue and get a return of investment to pay off the loan for that investment. I probably need to switch perspective, to actually appreciate it as a tool for cutting expenses in my daily life. If the day comes, where that won’t be purely hypothetical.

    But still, I think that only applies to stuff like housing, where you have recurring cost, that could be lower (even if it’s just in the long run) or maybe a car, that you need to get to a job, where it basically enables you to make more money. I don’t see any other cases, where it really makes sense to pay interest on anything.




  • SpongyAneurysm@feddit.orgtoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comHOW?!
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    9 days ago

    They’re onto something though.

    ‘Trains of thought’ is a good metaphor, because your thoughts do run on rails, and they do track improvement and maintenance each time you use one pathway.

    That’s why it’s not that simple, to just think positively, and maybe you need antidepressants to even do that. But it’s part of therapy to try to leave those trails more often and lay new tracks that lead to more positive places so you hopefully won’t need antidepressants for the rest of your life.










  • That’s a pretty screwed up way to view society. ‘Debutante balls’, at the least the ones I know, are usual events where teenagers dance with partners of the SAME age.

    This is more an elitist networking event with the chance to get your offspring to hook up with someone of ‘suitable’ social status.

    Historically speaking, the age gaps might have been a lot bigger, but I guess societal norms and laws were also different then.

    Of you course you can’t avoid older people on the sidelines ogling, but presenting that as the main purpose of the event is a pretty big stretch imho.

    And regarding grooming: that’s not the typical definition, either. Usually grooming is a tactic to make the abuse victim accepting of their abuse. Waiting for them to reach legal age before ‘cashing in’ on that effort is not a usual part of it.

    I agree it might be a hypothetical scenario though, that could be played out to do some really fucked up manipulation long game, while staying within a legal framework. But then again, that doesn’t strictly require the predator and victim to be related and if you want to have a way to abolish that, it shouldn’t need to rely on that either.