nikki

dawg you getting this heated in the replies is kinda telling of where you land here, chill out

as a trans person this hits twice as hard, I struggle to see those memories as my own yet know that they are. its an aspect of transition that you dont think of right away and really messes with my mind

I’m gonna make pancakes for my girlfriend before her shift, past that no idea were broke rn lol. also gonna make her a card today :)

if stoat can get their ducks in order and eventually add selfhosted federated servers to the service it will be a very comparable experience. big easy to use platform for most people and technical depth for those that want it.

a girl can dream I suppose, I’ll be supporting stoat for now

the rename is because of some other company throwing a fit, its not their choice

good point, wasn’t my original intent but yeah lol

the ID isn’t a direct cause. i just mention capitalism because most of the rest of the cause for me leaving is the enshittification. this is just the straw that broke the camels back like how reddit killing the app api is what pushed me off that platform

ill take my leave asap then, 10 years has been a pretty good sample of what capitalism does to a platform

its not a ui issue im just really fucking dumb

thats a lot of it

ive enjoyed owncloud so far, runs well on my little i3 homelab

i will simply not use new software for my personal cases then, if it comes down to it ill make my own. im a simple girl, ill manage my media and play my 20 year old games till i die

youll have to pry my 4 thinkpads from my cold dead hands you slimy sack of shit

not if im a lesbian

discord is one of those things i struggle to find an alternative to. not because i lack the skill to do it myself or to make something else do the same tasks, but because all my friends who aren’t as techy as me or big servers i like talking to wouldnt migrate.

having seen its decline since 2016, sooner or later ill have to make the jump but its gonna be harder than ditching google or microsoft because of the community aspect of it.

the struggle all becomes worth it when i get to hold my girlfriend at the end of the day :)