• 93maddie94@lemmy.zip
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    2 days ago

    Society has intertwined gender and sexuality. We’re now in a position that I don’t think we can backpedal from. I’m not even sure it’s from the porn industry. We always group it together (LGBTQ+). Someone’s gender or gender identity has nothing to do with who they’re fucking or who they’re attracted to. But we put everything under one umbrella so you can’t separate someone’s sexuality from their gender identity.

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      2 days ago

      Not just gender identity, but identity as a whole. Some people base their entire identity about who they are attracted to.

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        That’s why I base my identity on my alcoholism. I ain’t fucking Jim Beam and nobody needs to know who I am fucking.

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          Right? Like I don’t care who or what (for the most part) you’re fucking. Who are you as a person? Look, I know you didn’t ask, but I only fuck garlic bread. /s