I would want cremation. Cremation and a simple marker. I wouldn’t be buried at all at my marker, because I would actually want my ashes spread in two separate places. One is somewhere in my hometown and the other spot, probably around the recreational area of my middle school, where I had commonly found peace at.
My marker would have a Red Sox emblem, signifying fan for life to that team. The other symbol would probably be a resemblance of rebirth/reincarnation as a reflection of my beliefs, so presumably a phoenix would go there. Not entirely sure what exactly I’d want written on the marker. Debating on a personal quote or just say “Logged off for the last time” which references from all of the time I’ve spent being online.
Keep in mind that they can be pressured by others into doing something they don’t necessarily “want” to do. Making your intentions clear can be useful.
I don’t have any intention. Whatever. I will be dead by then, I couldn’t care less
That’s what my grandma said. The family fought for weeks.
Well, your grandma died thinking her family get on well with each other. You are the one who fought, not your grandma.
I never visit cemeteries and if I can I skip funerals. I don’t like to deal with the material stuff related to death, I like to grief alone.